Menopause Survival Guide: 
The Help You Need Before, During and After Menopause
by www.SixWise.com
 
Sometime  between the ages of 45 and 55, most women begin their journey to menopause  (although for some women it can start even in their 30s). For each woman, the  journey is unique. Some will notice no symptoms whatsoever, other than the  absence of their monthly period, but for many (upwards of 75 percent of women  or more), symptoms ranging from hot flashes and weight gain to mood swings and  depression surface.
Ironically,  by definition menopause lasts only one day. The term refers to the day you  haven’t had a period for 12 months in a row. The rest of the time you’ve been  treading through night sweats, irritability and the myriad of other menopause  symptoms is actually perimenopause, which refers to the time leading up to  menopause along with the year after.
What are the  Signs of Perimenopause?
In  the time leading up to menopause, you may experience one or more of the  following symptoms (and they may change or come and go), according to the U.S.  Department of Health and Human Services:
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    Changes       in pattern of periods (shorter or longer, lighter or heavier, more or less       time between periods) 
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    Hot       flashes (sudden rush of heat in upper body) 
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    Night       sweats (hot flashes that happen while you sleep), often followed by a       chill 
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    Trouble       sleeping through the night (with or without night sweats) 
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    Vaginal       dryness 
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    Mood       changes, feeling crabby (probably because of lack of sleep) 
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    Trouble       focusing, feeling       mixed-up or confused, forgetfulness  
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    Hair loss       or thinning on your head, more hair growth on your face 
Further,  menopause results in lowered estrogen levels (by the time a woman reaches  menopause, her estrogen levels may drop 40-60 percent) that impact your body in  multiple ways. Because of this, after menopause women are more likely to  experience:
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    Osteoporosis       (women lose an average of 25 percent of their bone mass from menopause to       age 60) 
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    Heart       disease 
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    Poor       bladder function 
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    Deterioration       in vision 
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    Increased       wrinkling of the skin 
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    Poor       muscle power and tone 
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    Poor       brain function and increased risk of Alzheimer’s disease 
You  do not, however, have to simply suffer in silence or feel that menopause  signals and end to your vim and vigor. On the contrary, many women really come into their  greatness after menopause,  and there are many strategies at your disposal to help you relieve  perimenopausal symptoms and enhance your well-being for many years to come.
Is Hormone  Replacement Therapy the Answer?
Prior  to 2002, about 30 percent of women took Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT),  often after being reassured by their doctors that the therapy would not only  relieve their menopause symptoms but also help prevent heart disease.
However,  this type of therapy is no longer widely recommended as study results came out  showing the therapy not only significantly increased the risk of breast cancer,  but heart disease, stroke, blood clots and dementia as well.
The  dangers of HRT (synthetic estrogen and progestin (synthetic progesterone) first  came out due to the government-funded Women’s Health Initiative (WHI) study.  Launched in 1991, the study was intended to test the effects of postmenopausal  hormone therapy on the risk of diseases, however it was stopped early when the  serious risks came to light.
Compared  to women taking a placebo, those who took estrogen plus progestin HRT had an:
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    Increased       risk of breast cancer 
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    Increased       risk of heart attack 
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    Increased       risk of stroke 
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    Increased       risk of blood clots 
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    Increased       risk of dementia 
The  findings were widely publicized and word spread fast to many women currently  taking the synthetic hormones. Even the FDA released a statement pointing out  that the risks of HRT exceeded the benefits:
“On May 31, 2002, the WHI study of  conjugated estrogens 0.625 mg/day, plus medroxyprogesterone acetate 2.5 mg/day  in postmenopausal women was stopped after a mean of 5.2 years of follow-up  because the test statistic for invasive breast cancer exceeded the stopping  boundary for this adverse effect and the global index statistic supported risks  exceeding benefits.”
Fortunately,  the number of women using HRT dropped by half when the study results came out,  and in 2003, just one year after millions of women stopped HRT, breast cancer rates had already  fallen by 7 percent   -- which amounted to about 14,000 fewer cases of breast cancer that year alone!
Natural  Bioidentical Hormones: What You Need to Know
Many  experts recommend natural, bioidentical hormones such as estriol as a safe  alternative to synthetic varieties. Chemically identical to the hormones  produced in your body, bioidentical hormones are typically produced by a  compounding pharmacist.
They  received widespread media attention in 2009, when Oprah Winfrey announced they  had made a big improvement in her menopause symptoms. Although no adverse  affects are currently on the market, long-term studies on the use of  bioidentical hormone therapy have yet to be conducted.
For  this reason, you may want to consider bioidentical hormones as a “last resort”  to use only after lifestyle changes.
Lifestyle  Changes can Make Dramatic Impact on Menopausal Symptoms
A  healthy lifestyle has been proven to help lessen the severity of menopausal  symptoms, including hot flashes, mood swings, sleeplessness and more. These  strategies should be your first line of defense and can be put into action long  before your first symptoms begin.
Eat  Well
A  healthy diet that focuses on fresh, whole foods, including raw foods, fruits  and vegetables and avoiding sugar and trans fats, will keep your body well  nourished through menopause. Be sure you’re also getting plenty of vitamin D  during this time. 
Ease  Stress
Putting  too much on your plate can lead to increased feelings of  "forgetfulness" and will also certainly make you more tired and  moody. Make stress-relief a priority in your life by:
Exercise
"Exercise  compensates nicely for declining levels of estrogen," said Wolfgang  Kemmler, PhD, who led a study on the topic. The German study of 78 early  postmenopausal women found that women who exercised for one hour (with both  aerobic and strength training) four days a week experienced fewer:
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    Migraines 
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    Mood       swings 
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    Bouts of       insomnia 
...  than women who did not exercise. They also had the added benefits of:
On  the other hand, women who did not exercise lost 8 percent of their bone mass  and had increases in body fat, waist measurements and cholesterol.
Women  of all ages will especially enjoy the life-changing fitness program found at MySheaNetics.com.  Taught by Shea Vaughn -- fitness guru and mom to Hollywood celebrity Vince  Vaughn -- the program combines the best-of-the-best moves from Yoga, Pilates,  Tai Chi, Martial Arts, GYROKINESIS®, Dance and MORE -- guiding you through  unique sequences of movements that strengthen, sculpt, build core and increase  flexibility.
But  even more, Shea believes the key to finding well-being in every life stage is  to embrace the SheaNetics  Five Living Principles  in your own life,  which is why the program offers such tremendous mind-body benefits you will  love!
Further,  according to the Mayo Clinic, exercise like yoga, which is integrated into the  MySheaNetics.com program, can help to reduce the number of hot flashes in  perimenopausal women.
Restful  Sleep
Quality  sleep is important for you to feel your best. It may help to create a relaxing  bedtime routine, including taking a bath before bed, brushing your teeth,  getting into your PJs and turning on some soothing music that will let your  mind know it's time for slumber.
Once  you are in bed, listen to a relaxation  CD like the Sleep Easy CD   to help you "shift gears" and relax into sleep.
Natural  Remedies to Ease Symptoms
You  can also supplement your healthy lifestyle with the following natural remedies  that offer menopause symptom relief:
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    Phytoestrogens: Found in       fermented soybeans, flaxseeds, chickpeas, whole grains and more,       phytoestrogens produce a weak estrogen-like activity in the body, which       may help offset some of the estrogen loss that occurs during menopause. 
Renaissance  Natural Progesterone Cream   is one of the ONLY progesterone creams on the market containing 100 percent  pure micronized USP progesterone powder in a topical cream. Only USP  progesterone powder is bio-identical to the naturally occurring progesterone in  your body.
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    For Hot Flashes: Regular       exercise and eating flaxseeds may help reduce severity and frequency. You       should also dress in layers so you can cool off easily, and use       moisture-wicking bed linens and clothing to help with night sweats. You       may notice certain triggers as well, such as a hot room, spicy foods,       alcohol, etc., so do your best to avoid these. 
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    Embrace your life and your body: A positive mental outlook              on your life and your physical image will do wonders to keeping you       feeling strong and vital at any age. Optimism has been verified as a       successful strategy to prevent mental and physical illness, and is a skill you can learn,       like riding a bike! 
As  leading meditation expert, Mary Maddux, creator of the Pure Relaxation CD,  wrote, “I think what we'll find is that we can not only do away with some myths  about aging which limit our quality of life, but also discover some of the  "perks" of aging that we often ignore.
There  are lots of role models who have led the way for us. Did you know, for example,  that:
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    Martha       Graham danced professionally until she was 76? 
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    Benjamin       Franklin invented bifocals at the age of 78? 
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    Georgia       O'Keefe continued painting well into her 90s? 
Vitality  in "later life" is not just for the famous. Undoubtedly everyone  knows at least one person who is living a vital, fulfilling life  "despite" their age. This is really the way it should be -- life should become better as we  age.”
 
SixWise Says ...
“As I grow in  age, I value mature ladies most of all. Here are just a few of the reasons  senior men sing the praises of older women:
    - An older woman knows how to smile       with such brightness and truth, old men stagger.
    - An older woman will never ask out       of the blue, "What are you thinking?" An older woman doesn't       care what you think.
    - An older woman has been around       long enough to know who she is, what she wants, and from whom. By the age       of 50, few women are wishy-washy. About anything. Thank God!
    - And yes, once you get past a       wrinkle or two, an older woman is far sexier than her younger counterpart!
    - Her fear of  pregnancy's gone.
    - Her  appreciation of experienced lovemaking is honed and reciprocal.
    - And she's lived long enough to       know how to please a man in ways her daughter could never dream of. (Young       men, you have something to look forward to!)
    - Older women are forthright and       honest. They'll tell you right off that you are a jerk if you're acting       like one. A young woman will say nothing, fearing that you might think       worse of her. An older woman doesn't give a damn.
    - An older, single woman usually has       had her fill of "meaningful relationships" and "long-term       commitments." Can't relate? Can't commit? She could care less. The       last thing she needs in her life is another whiny, dependent lover!
    - Older women are sublime. They       seldom contemplate having a shouting match with you at the opera or in the       middle of an expensive dinner. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't       hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.
    - Most older women cook well. They       care about cleanliness. They're generous with praise, often undeserved.
    - An older woman has the self-assurance       to introduce you to her women friends. A young woman often snarls with       distrust when "her guy" is with other women. Older women       couldn't care less.
    - Women get psychic as they age. You       never have to confess your sins to an older woman. Like your mother, they       always know. 
Yes, we  geezers praise older women for a multitude of reasons. These are but a few.”
--Frank Kaiser, SuddenlySenior.com
 
Recommended Reading
Menopause and  Memory Loss: New Research Explains Why Menopausal Women Often Feel Forgetful
The Season of  Your Birth Influences the Age of Menopause
Sources
WomensHealth.gov  Perimenopause
WebMD.com  January 15, 2009
Prevention.com  August 3, 2005
MayoClinic.com  Menopause
Journal  of Agriculture and Food Chemistry December 27, 2006; 54(26): 9852-9857
Cleveland Clinic:  Menopause
FDA.gov  “Estrogen and Estrogen with Progestin Therapies for Postmenopausal Women”