Is Swearing Good for You? Surprising New Research
Sheds  Light on Why We Use Profane Language
by www.SixWise.com
 
You  accidentally bang your funny bone on the sharp edge of a countertop and out it  comes … @!%$#! For some, this sudden outpouring of profanity upon being hurt  (physically or emotionally) is almost instinctual and happens without real  conscious thought.
    
        
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 Americans’ love affair with foul language may have started in ancient times …  and for good reason; swearing helps us cope with both stress and pain! | 
    
And  as it turns out, this may be for good reason.
A  new study from Keele University in England found that swearing  triggers your body’s natural “fight or flight” stress response and actually  increases your tolerance to pain.
"Swearing  has been around for centuries and is an almost universal human linguistic  phenomenon," said author Richard Stephens of Keele  University in England on  LiveScience.com. "It taps into emotional brain centers and appears to  arise in the right brain, whereas most language production occurs in the left  cerebral hemisphere of the brain."
The  study involved 64 undergraduates who were asked to submerge their hand in a tub  of ice water while first repeating a swear word and, in a second experiment,  repeating a common word used to describe a table.
“Swearing  increased pain tolerance, increased heart rate and decreased perceived pain  compared with not swearing,” the researchers wrote.
Is Swearing  Hard-Wired Into Our Brains?
Linguistic  researchers have pointed out that colorful language has been a part of the  earliest writings, dating back some 5,000 years. And since written language  stems from oral communication, it’s suspected that strong language was a part  of the earliest forms of human communication.
Indeed,  The New York Times points out examples of foul language among Shakespeare,  Queen Elizabeth 1 and even the Bible, and says, “Researchers point out that  cursing is often an amalgam of raw, spontaneous feeling and targeted,  gimlet-eyed cunning.”
Swearing for  Stress Relief?
    
        
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Researchers  maintain that swearing is often used as a form of stress relief and anger  management, and may actually be an under-appreciated way to blow off steam.
For  instance, researchers from the University  of East Anglia in Norwich, U.K.  found that "social" or "annoyance" swearing can make the  workplace more pleasurable and even strengthen bonds between employees.
"Taboo  language serves the needs of people for developing and maintaining solidarity  and as a mechanism to cope with stress," said Yehuda Baruch, a professor  of management at UAE. "Banning it could backfire."
While  social swearing was found to promote a sense of "oneness" among  employees, swearing out of annoyance was an effective "relief  mechanism" for stress, replacing more "primitive physical  aggression."
When  Swearing Turns Foul
Swearing,  of course, has its limits. If swearing becomes excessive or verbally abusive,  it becomes a form of  bullying.  This, far from boosting worker morale, can lead to loss of productivity,  absenteeism, depression, low morale and stress. And according to the Cuss Control   Academy:
“Swearing  can be rude, crude and offensive. It can reflect a bad attitude that hurts your  image and your relationships. People might perceive you as an abrasive person  who lacks character, maturity, intelligence, manners and emotional control.”
In  fact, research has found that while 64 percent of Americans say they use the  F-word (8 percent of whom use it several times a day), an Associated  Press-Ipsos poll found that 74 percent of women and 60 percent of men are  bothered by profanity at least some of the time.
And  almost everyone agreed -- including those who do it -- that it's wrong to swear  for no particular reason.
So  if you find that swearing is your preferred form of stress relief, you may be  offending people more often than you realize. A better way to deal with stress  and keep it from becoming overwhelming is Staying Healthy in a Stressful World,  the highly praised CD by Dr. Peter Reznik, one of the most respected mind/body  integrative therapists of our time. The program will actually help you to  embark on a practice for transforming your stress into life-enhancing  experiences.
Further,  if you’d really like to change your offensive language habit for the better,  the Cuss Control Academy  offers the following 10 tips for taming your tongue:
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    Recognize that swearing does damage. 
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    Start by eliminating casual  swearing. 
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    Think positively. 
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    Practice being patient. 
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    Cope, don't cuss. 
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    Stop complaining. 
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    Use alternative words. 
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    Make your point politely. 
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    Think of what you should have said. 
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    Work at it. 
Recommended  Reading
How Your Body  Language Conveys Confidence, Intelligence and Trust ... or a Lack There of
How to Stay  Safe When You are Confronted by an Aggressive Person
Sources
NeuroReport  August 5, 2009; 20(12):1056-60
Yahoo  News July 12, 2009
MarketWatch.com  October 18, 2007
USAToday.com  March 28, 2006
The  New York Times September 20, 2005
CussControl.com